COUPLES Honesty On a scale of 1 to 10, how comfortable are you sharing things you feel ashamed or embarrassed about with me? In what ways do I make it easy for you to be honest, and in what ways do I make it harder? When you’re upset with me, do you feel like you can express it directly, or do you tend to hold it in or use a different way to show it? Do you feel you are honest with me about your needs for personal space, time alone, or time with friends? Do you feel that we are both equally good at admitting when we are wrong? How honest do you feel we are with each other about our expectations for the future (career, family, living situation, etc.)? If we disagree on something, do you feel we are honest about our commitment to finding a compromise? How much emphasis, if any, did your parents put on honesty in your household growing up? Who is the most honest person you know?