ASK YOUR TEEN Should You Date this Guy? Is he unkind? How does he treat his siblings? How does he treat his mother? How does he treat those who are less fortunate? Does he surround himself with bad influences? Does he spend time with boys who treat girls with honor and respect? Are his friends the type of people who will make him sharper and more decent? Does he spend time with friends who will anchor him in faith? Is he disrespectful? Is he respectful with his words? Does he talk down to people or behind their backs? How does he speak to authority figures? Does he have a bad reputation? How do his peers speak of him? What do his employers, coaches, and/or teachers say about him? What do his friends say about him? Does he lack self-discipline? How often does he follow through on his word? Does he take care of his responsibilities? How well does he hold boundaries?