COUPLES Adapting to Changes Share a time when your life changed and you had a hard time adjusting. When things don’t go as planned, what can I do that you’d find helpful or comforting? Share a time when your life changed and it was easy for you to adjust. What in our life and family do you think needs to change? What can I do to help kick start those changes? What do you hope always stays the same in our life and family? What can I do to ensure that those things don’t change? What inevitable changes do you look forward to in your lifetime and why do you look forward to them? How do you hope to see our relationship grow in the next year? What are some steps we can take to get there?